'MY BOYFRIEND LOVES MY CHUBBY BITS'

Rebecca Atwood, 20, from Bournemouth
Relationship status: In a relationship
Job: Full-time mum to Daniel, two

"If I could have sex every day, I would. But my boyfriend lives in London, so we only see each other twice a week. I know people might think men won't find me attractive because of my size, but they're wrong. Men prefer my size 20 curves to skin and bones. I've been with my boyfriend for two years, after splitting from my son's dad, and he loves my chubby bits. I'd never let my size get in the way of my sex life. I may not look fit, but I have loads of energy in the bedroom - running around after a toddler keeps me active."

 

 

'I'M WAITING UNTIL I MARRY'

Becky Robinson, 25, from Streatham, South London
Relationship status: Single
Job: Table dancer at Secrets, London

"I lost my virginity at 17 to my boyfriend of six months. It was horrible and painful - he was drunk and rough - and when we split up, I vowed not to have sex again until I married. I've kept that promise, and although I've had a lot of boyfriends since, they inevitably get bored waiting. However, I believe that when I meet the right man, he'll be happy to hang on until we're married. I know people might think working as a table dancer is weird when I'm not sexually active, but I love dancing and customers aren't allowed to touch. At the end of a long day the last thing on my mind is sex. But if I do get the urge, I've got my Rampant Rabbit!"

 

'KIDS DESTROYED OUR SEX LIFE'

Michelle Hutchins, 36, from Brentwood, Essex
Relationship status: Married
Job: Full-time mum to Joseph, six, twins Finley and Macey, two, and Dylan, one

"My husband Darren and I joke that we only have sex on high days and holidays, but it's practically true.We used to have an active sex life, but with four children we just don't have the time or energy. I don't worry too much though because it won't go on forever. When we do make the time on a special occasion, my parents babysit, we dress up and go out for dinner. But even then it doesn't always happen as wine just makes us even more sleepy!"

 

 

'I LOVE NO-STRINGS SEX'

Kaycee Croft, 29, from Prestatyn, Wales
Relationship status: Single
Job: Photographer

"I was in a relationship from the age of 18 until I was 25. When we split four years ago, I decided to make the most of being single. Now I have three single male friends who I call for no-ties sex and every so often, I'll go for a 'splurge', which means going out with friends to a city where no one knows us and having a one-night stand. We keep in touch by mobile to check we're all OK. I do worry about what people might think of me and certainly don't discuss my sex life with my parents - although I'm sure they'd be fine. I'm just a single girl who enjoys sex and as long as I'm careful and use protection, where's the harm?"

 

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