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'Children create a divide between the have-cots and the have-nots'

 

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AUG 31 'SLASHED BY HUSBAND - SO I HAD HIM JAILED', KATE GARRAWAY, 'I FOUND MY REAL MUM', TRISHA GODDARD

AUG 24 'I SHARED A BED WITH SEX CAM RAPIST', MEL GIEDROYC, 'MY DAUGHTER LOST HER EYE', LOSING 8ST THE HARD WAY

AUG 17 HYPER HEELS SURVIVAL GUIDE, 'MY FASHION ADDICTION ALMOST KILLED ME'

AUG 10 JULIE BURCHILL ON MADONNA, SPRAY TANS AND HEELS AT 10, LEARNING TO LIVE WITHOUT SISTER, FAB AT 50

AUG 3 GROOMLESS BRIDE, SARAH CHAMPION, 'I EAT PEOPLE'S RUBBISH', 'SCHOOL PROM MADE ME ANOREXIC'

JULY 27 'I SOLD MY BODY', 'LOVE TURNS ME INTO A SEX PEST', 'I HAD 8 STROKES BY 21', TOBY YOUNG

JULY 20 FABULOUS BODY SURVEY 2008, 'I BOUGHT A GASTRIC BAND FOR MY 18TH', 'AFFAIR SAVE OUR MARRIAGE', 'I ALMOST DIED FOR THE PERFECT BODY', KATY BRAND

JULY 13 'I STEAL FOR FUN', SUN, SEA AND STARVATION, TRACEY COX, 'I WANT TO STOP CUTTING',

JULY 6 SEX-PHOBIC, FRUGALISTAS, MARIELLA FROSTRUP, BABY BULLIES, FACELIFT LIKE MUM, FLABBY TUMMIES, JOIN THE ZZZ LIST

JUNE 29 'I BEAT PEOPLE FOR FUN', SUBMISSIVE WIVES, 'I CAN'T LOVE MY BABY', ATHLETICA NERVOSA, JUNE SARPONG

JUNE 22 BINGE DRINKERS, PRISON SUICIDES, JACKIE CLUNE, PROM QUEENS, MODELS WITH A DIFFERENCE

JUNE 15 DEBT DETOX, 'I LOST MY HOUSE AND MAN', SHAZIA MIRZA, 'SPENDING £2M PUT US IN JAIL', 'MY FREE NEW BOOBS'

JUNE 8 GORGEOUS GIGOLO, FIGHT FOR INNOCENCE, 'OUR BODIES ARE PERFECT'

JUNE 1 RADIOTHERAPY BABY, LIVING TOGETHER APART, JESSIE MCCARTNEY

MAY 25 BOOB JAB, MEET THE FREEMALES, SALLY LINDSAY, 'HE STOLE OUR CHILD...'

MAY 18 NO-STRINGS CYBERSEX, TISWAS, PLUS-SIZED AND PROUD, MARTIN LEWIS

MAY 11 WHAT HAPPENED NEXT IN SATC, 'I NEED 5 MEN TO KEEP ME HAPPY', 'ONLY 18... BUT SLEPT WITH 50 MEN', ALCOHOLIC, HOMELESS AND BROKE, 'WE POSED NAKED BECAUSE...', GET CARRIE-D AWAY

MAY 4 'MUM SOLD ME FOR £250', 'TERRORISED BY OUR OWN KIDS', THE TANOREXIC FAMILY

APRIL 27 'WE'LL NEVER FORGET OUR GIRLS', BIG GIRL'S PARADISE, 'I DON'T BELIEVE IN MARRIAGE', AGE-GAP LOVE, £20 SURGERY TO GET A MAN, ULRIKA JONSSON

APRIL 20 WHAT GOES AROUND..., THE BIRTH PHOBICS, FRENEMIES, KATIE HOPKINS, LAXATIVE ADDICT

APRIL 13 BUS STOP KILLER, DARK SIDE OF THE WEB, FAT AND HAPPY?, SIAN LLOYD

APRIL 6 FABULOUS SEX SURVEY, THE DRUNKOREXICS, CINDERELLA SURGERY, ANGELA GRIFFIN

MARCH 30 IRRESISTIBLE TO WOMEN, BULLIES MADE ME BALD, BABYMOONERS, BEN COHEN

MARCH 23 SUGAR MUMMIES, PLASTIC SURGERY ADDICT, LEIGH FRANCIS, ANOREXIC SISTERS

MARCH 16 WANNABE WAGS, ANTIDEPRESSANT DEBATE, SHARON HORGAN

MARCH 9 BRIDAL BOOTCAMP, FORGIVE A LOVE CHEAT?, MY CROOKED SPINE, YOUNG, GIFTED & GORGEOUS

MARCH 2 SKINNY MUMMY SYNDROME, BOOMERANG BRIDE

FEB 24 QUARTER-LIFE CRISIS, LOVE CURED CRACK HABIT, GYM ADDICTION, SHOULD WOMEN PROPOSE?

FEB 17 HE WANTS KIDS - I DON'T, SAGGY STOMACH, KATY BRAND

FEB 10 MY WIFE KILLED MY KIDS, I DO TAKE 2, BABY-FACED AND BOTOXED, KONNIE HUQ

FEB 3 HOOKED ON CLENBUTEROL, GOLD DIGGER AND PROUD, I LOST 18ST AND MY MAN

OLLIE SAYS...

Whenever I see Lisa playing with my two young nieces, I always think she'd make a great mum.

I really believe she'll eventually change her mind on the kids issue.

Part of me is probably in denial as Lisa has repeatedly told me she doesn't want to be a mum, but another part is sure her maternal side will kick in.

I have to believe this as I don't want to think I might never have a family.

When Lisa first told me she didn't want kids I thought she was joking – now I know she's not.

Even so, I refuse to be put off and hope we'll start a family in our mid-30s.

If Lisa still doesn't want to, then I will have to face reality and make some life-changing decisions.

Having children means an awful lot to me, but I can't imagine life without Lisa.

It would be incredibly difficult, but I'd have to accept us as a childless couple and hope it doesn't become something I'll regret forever.

 

WOULD YOU STAY WITH YOUR PARTNER IF THEY DIDN'T WANT KIDS AND YOU DID? HAVE YOUR SAY.

'HE WANTS KIDS

- but I don't'

LISA MURRAY AND HER PARTNER OLLIE COOPER, BOTH 28, HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP. BUT THERE'S ONE MAJOR STUMBLING BLOCK THAT COULD SPLIT THEM UP…

LISA SAYS...

Don't get me wrong, I don't hate babies. I just don't want my own. Never have, never will. I consider myself to be a nurturing, caring individual, but I've never felt any affinity with kids – babies are boring and children are annoying.

And, in some ways, my decision is an environmentally friendly one. I'm no green queen, but the planet is already overpopulated and our waste is depleting resources, so my decision is also a step towards saving the world, right?

Children create an enormous divide between the have-cots and have-nots. If they ever return your calls, conversation is limited. We didn't talk about poo before, so why is it on the menu now?

I think Ollie's hoping I'll change my mind as the tick-tock of my biological clock gets louder. Well, I can't predict the future and yes, I might decide my life is a void without children – but I doubt it.

I'd never be so selfish as to deprive Ollie of the chance to have a family because I love him and want him to be happy. I'm rational about the fact that my decision poses a threat to our relationship.

The thought of saying goodbye to the man I love because we want such fundamentally different things in life is simply heartbreaking, so I try to push it to the back of my mind.

I'd be devastated if he left, but I'd just have to try to convince myself that if we have such contradictory views about the future, perhaps we were never meant to be together.

It's the hardest thing of all to disagree about, but I just hope we can find some way to make it work.

 

WOULD YOU STAY WITH YOUR PARTNER IF THEY DIDN'T WANT KIDS AND YOU DID? HAVE YOUR SAY.

 

Credits

Photography: Charlotte Murphy Words: Lisa Murry, Claie Wilson